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    Points:4

    Share some tips to improve one's 'Personality'.

    It is said that a man is judged by his personality. A person also takes an impression about a person by checking his or her personality. It doesn't only mean their physical appearance. It is a judgement as a whole. Even if you go for an interview they always give 1st preference to a person who has a notable personality.
    So, suggest some tips to improve the personalities as it is an unavoidable aspect in everybodies life.
  • #6681

    Points:2
    One will be recognized initially from his appearance as first impression is the best impression. Personality development books and classes are always helpful in molding up a true gentleman.
    Helping mentality,caring,sharing and respecting others are some important tips to improve one's personality.

  • #6686

    Points:1
    Dear member, personality refers to individual traits that is developed overtime. It can be change with thorough training and encouragement.
    Adesola Adeyeye

  • #6745

    Points:5

    here are some improvements tips i would like to share with you guys:-
    1. Don ' t compare your life to others ' . You have no idea what their journey is all about.

    2. Don ' t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

    3. Don ' t over do. Keep your limits.

    4. Don ' t take yourself so seriously.No one else does.

    5. Don ' t waste your precious energy on gossip.

    6. Dream more while you are awake.

    7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

    8. Forget issues of the past. Don ' t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

    9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don ' t hate others.

    10. Make peace with your past so it won ' t spoil the present.

    11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

    12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

    13. Smile and laugh more.

    14. You don ' t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


    "Hope your day is as beautiful as you are!"

  • #6746

    Points:3
    'Personality' is a word which has more connection with one's looks. As you know the word has derived from the word 'persona', a word derived from Latin, where it originally referred to a theatrical mask.

    However, by usage it has taken slightly an extended meaning. Now it reflects the over all stature of a person, which include his behaviour, body language, speaking capability, etc.
    (You have mistakenly posted the title as 'once personality', instead of 'one's personality').
    T.M.Sankaran
    Gold Member, SPK

  • #6749

    Points:1
    Aman kumar, it was great to see such an interesting response on 'Personality development'. The catching point among them was to 'DREAM when you are awake'. All the great men who have attained heights are said to be 'GREAT DREAMERS'

  • #6825

    Points:5
    What is Personality?
    The "personality" is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.

    When we say that someone has a "good personality" we mean that they are likeable, interesting and pleasant to be with.

    Everyone wants to be attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is vital - probably even more so than good looks. In fact, approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.

    While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want. We can develop or integrate any trait we deem fitting and agreeable.


    Here are some ways we can accomplish this:
    Be a better listener.
    Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
    Read more and expand your interests.
    The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
    Be a good conversationalist.
    This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
    Enjoy the article on The Art of Conversation!

    Have an Opinion.
    There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
    Meet New People.
    Make the effort to meet new people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
    Be yourself.
    The next most tiresome thing after having no opinions is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to be a carbon copy of someone else not only falls flat, but reveals a lack of authenticity.


    Have a positive outlook and attitude.
    Who wants to be around people who are negative, complain a lot, or have nothing good to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence.
    See: How to Think Positively
    Be fun and see the humorous side of life.
    Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them laugh, or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side in a situation - there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome and needed diversion at times. When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you, not to mention grateful.

    Be supportive of others.
    Being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a cheerleader in our corner; someone who is encouraging, believes in us and helps pick us up when we're down.
    Have Integrity and treat people with respect.

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    Ranjan Kumar

    Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect - respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.
    We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we contribute to our own, as well as the happiness of others.

  • #6891

    Points:2
    Smile always and find way to beeing happy every time then slowly other starts love us and make them happy so they bring happyness when we are sad. Personality developments first step is this smile always. second step is that to make a helping mentality. Third step is that dont tell bad words. Think about GOD always.

  • #6892

    Points:2
    Smile always and find way to beeing happy every time, then slowly otherd starts love us and make them happy so they bring happyness when we are sad.
    Personality developments first step is this smile always.

    second step is that to make a helping mentality.

    Third step is that dont tell bad words. Think about GOD always.

  • #6987

    Points:1
    Thank you friends for these valuable responses.

  • #7199

    Points:5
    some tips in improving personality:

    1. Be interested in people. Try to discover what other people want. Know their likes, dislikes, interests, and beliefs. By doing this, you will be regarded as a person with an attractive and pleasing personality.

    2. Assume that people like you. If you show the other person that you want people to talk to you, they will react to you with warmth.

    3. Admit your weaknesses. Do not regard yourself as a perfect person. Just as persons have strengths, they also have their weaknesses. To improve your personality, you should admit that you also have defects.

    4. Admire your friends. Praise them for their achievements. Tell them how attractive they look. Make them feel how important they are to you. By this, they will also give importance.

    5. Associate with people who are successful and happy. Seek the companionship of others who can give you new points of views, renewed hopes, and meaningful life. Ask for their advice and guidance. They can give you valuable insights about their experiences in life. You can learn from their insights and apply their insights to improving your personality.

    6. Attend social gatherings. Social gatherings can increase your circle of friends. Social events can likewise give you new insights and experiences. It can help improve your relationships with other people and your community. Social gatherings can help you develop your communication skills.

    7. Change your environment. Go on vacation or rest in a new place. Renovate your house and fix your furniture. Introduce changes in your environment.

    8. Learn new things. Learn how to cook or play the piano. Enroll in voice lessons. Indulge in gardening. By doing this, you are expanding your horizons.

    Aside from this, you can also develop your skills in other areas such as public speaking and understanding other people's attitudes and beliefs.

    Improving your personality takes a lot of work and dedication. While it may take a lot of work, it can be worthwhile and fun because you are focusing your attention on improving relationships with others and yourself.

    good luck :-)

  • #7256

    Points:4
    Personality is an important quality that we all should develop in our due course of life. Personality includes our looks, behavior towards other people, sense of humour, attitude towards all, positive feeling about yourself by others, etc. We have to develop all these to succeed in our life. If a man has a born talent to bring happiness answer success in his life then he holds great personality in him. So in order to improve in this, go out into the world and experience many typical people with great personalities. Feel like professional.


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